Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Leaving for Ecuador. Day 1

We're here! Some of this information may bore you to tears...but I want to use this as a journal of sorts for future families adopting and for us to look back and remember.

Our journey really started last Friday night when we left Cedar Rapids and drove to IL to take Addie to my parents.  Addie loves her Nana and Papa and we are so fortunate to have a close relationship with both Zac's parents and mine.  Saturday morning we helped mom get Addie settled and got her clothes unpacked and organized.  Leslie, Corbett, and Evie had came in on the train on Friday night so we spent most of Saturday just playing and enjoying time with them.  My grandparents came out for lunch and it was good to see them as well. Saturday night I drove Zac to the Quad Cities as he was going with his good friend Chris to the Bears game on Sunday as Chris always gets tickets and takes Zac with him each year...it just happened to be the Sunday that we were leaving...so Zac had to say goodbye to Addie on Saturday...I think he had a harder time with it than I thought he would.  Poor guy. =(

Sunday we enjoyed the day just spending time with family.  I enjoyed a nice long nap with Addie and then Leslie and the kids and I packed up to head to Naperville.  I tried to sit and read Sisters book that we have been reading for the past several months but Addie really wanted nothing to do with it.  Funny, because she is usually so into reading that book....but wanted NOTHING to do with it.  Pretty sure she knew what was going on.  I gave her lots of kisses as she gave me plenty as well.  Tried to explain to her that it was time to go get Sister and we would be home soon...she waved goodbye just as if we'd be back in an hour. =(.  I so wish she understood what 6 weeks is...but maybe it's best she didn't.  If I cried saying goodbye to my Aunt and Uncle and cried saying goodbye to my dearest friend...pretty sure I'd be even worse if Addie was crying as well.  Oh, and Zac enjoyed a Chief's win at the game.=)  Kellie and Brian were able to come over and  Leslie and Dave treated us to Portillo's...one of Zac and I's favorite burger places in Naperville.

Monday morning we were up and at em at 5:30AM as we had to leave for the airport at 6:30AM to get to O'Hare in time.  A big thanks to my bro in law Dave for getting up super early when he is not a morning person. And a big thanks to Leslie for sending us off with some yummy coffee. =) Getting through security and what not was fairly simple with a few hiccups.  Our flight left at 9:30AM and as we were boarding it started snowing.  I was sad to be leaving the first real snow of the season...but happy to know we were going to warmer weather!  I was surprisingly calm on our flights...we flew Chicago to Miami to Quito.  We landed in Quito at about 7:30PM and the fun began.

When you land in Quito, you first go through immigration authorities check and then through customs check.  I had our passports and all the necessary paperwork.  However....Zac's passport had gotten wet and had a small crease through his picture where he had carried in it his back pocket.  Mind you, I had already shown his passport to the passport authorities in Iowa...and they said it would be fine.  They were wrong.


The lady informed us after asking several of her peers that she could not accept his passport and he would need to return to the USA.  ARE YOU FREAKIN KIDDING ME!  I was about as calm as the waters of a hurricane.  I was crying or maybe I should say sobbing....And of course, the officials continued to talk, in Spanish to each other...have I mentioned how unprepared we were for the language barrier? I thought I'd be able to understand much more than what I actually have.....I was very wrong.  Zac and I continued to just stand there and we asked to see her supervisor.  It seemed to me from what I could gather that he was saying to go ahead and accept it, but that it was up to her as it was her job....guessing that workers could be fined for letting people through illegally....we continued to explain that we were to go meet our daughter tomorrow...explaining we weren't here for tourism, we are here for an adoption...after about 30 minutes and three more people joining her at the counter, she agreed to let us through under the condition that we go to the US consulate here in Ecuador and get a replacement.  Ok, fine, just let us through...

Funny thing is we had just prayed on the plane that thanks precedes miracles and spent some time just giving thanks and praise of all that God had done and given to us thus far in this adoption journey.  And that, my friends, was a miracle that the woman finally let Zac into the country.  Praise be to God!

We went and stood in line at customs and quickly got through.  Our driver that our agency had set up was waiting with a sign probably wondering why in the world it took us so long....and of course he didn't speak a lick of English so away we went in silence to the Broaddus family apartment.  The Broaddus family had arrived two weeks prior to adopt their sweet 8 year old girl and had graciously allowed us to stay with them that Monday night.  We arrived to a home cooked meal of Spaghetti and meatballs and peanut butter cookies! Thank you Andy and Stephanie!

Stephanie let us use her computer to Skype to my parents and talk to Addie.  Addie was so excited to see us...after just coming through what we did Zac and I were two bawling babies...so thankful for that time with Addie showing off like she does.

At about 10:30PM our representative and the lawyer for Quito families, Maria Jose, arrived with her translator Jenny.  They had been working with another family that day in court so I guess that's why it was so late...Maria Jose and Jenny explained to us the process and answered most of our questions.  However, they did explain that due to things being a little bit different in Cuenca compared to Quito we weren't actually going to get to meet our daughter until Wednesday.  =( Our hearts sank...she went on to explain that we would be meeting with our lawyer and agency rep in Cuenca, Priscilla, and her translator, Carmen, on Tuesday morning and would then take us to the INFA office who oversees the adoption process.  She explained that the INFA people would be giving us a schedule of what the coming days would look like and explain more of the process in Cuenca.  They also let us know that our driver would be at the apartment to pick us up at 5AM to take us to our flight to Cuenca.  Maria Jose and Jenny left about midnight and Zac and I headed to bed.  We'd be getting up in 4 hours.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

So thankful...there are just no words...but thank you.

The last couple of weeks have just been amazing.  God has been working in some big ways.  Moving mountains and providing the way.  Our fundraiser will close out on Nov. 30th...so watch for winners to be posted on Dec. 1st.  There's still time to enter to win! =)  Thank you to all who have either donated, or been an encouragement along the way..even today at MOPS some of the gals I've met through MOPS handed me bags with donations  for the orphanage and gifts to keep Adriana busy on the flights and time in the apartment....wow....just thankful. God is so amazing, isn't He?!

We have been overwhelmed throughout this whole adoption journey of family and friends and their support, encouragement and continuous prayer.  I have come to know total strangers (whom I can only pray we'll meet someday soon) to be good friends...Kim, Stephanie, Lisandra, Anna, Carol....As I dialed Stephanie's number tonight to get a little more information on the process that she's already been through as far as getting our immigration approval wired to Ecuador...I just sat in awe of what God has given us.  To be able to call a complete stranger and talk...for almost half of an hour about our adoption journey...and our journey with Christ...I mean really...how cool is that?!

Another absolute amazing thing that has helped me along this journey is the author Ann Voskamp who wrote 1000 gifts..just returned from Ecuador after traveling with Compassion International.  No, she wasn't in the orphanages, but she was there...she was with the children who needed Christ...who needed to know the love  of Christ and the feeling of just being loved...just so cool to be able to follow her and the teams  journey as they traveled the country of Ecuador loving on others as Christ loves us.

Last Wednesday, the group Dando Amor...who was the group that traveled back in March, who originally "introduced" us to Adriana traveled back to Ecuador to work in and raise money for the orphanages for the third time this year.  So we have had another look into the orphanages and I am praying that they might give us a little more insight to our dear sweet Adriana...does she like our book we sent? what about her birthday shirt and doll?  Maybe they won't or can't share that information...but if God thinks we need to hear it...pretty sure He'll make it happen.

So when do we travel? Good question!  Tentatively and I mean TENTATIVELY we are planning to travel out Dec. 17th.  I spoke to our immigration officer today and he finally has our file...seriously, I think it is carried by snails  from Texas to Missouri....he said he should be able to get it approved tomorrow provided there are no issues...once we have USCIS approval for Adriana then that gets wired to the visa consulate office in Ecuador and at that time we get travel approval....so yes, provided all goes well, without incident, we are still slated to fly out of Chicago on the 17th.

My friend Stephanie..whom  I've yet to meet...was slated and even had tickets purchased for travel on Nov. 20th, only to find out her daughters picture was rejected at the visa office due to her eyes being closed...and they now won't leave until after Thanksgiving. =(  So yes, issues can happen when it comes to international adoption...I won't guarantee we leave on the 17th until our plane has left the airport. =)

So we have about a month to prepare, pack, clean, etc...so thankful for friends (Amy and Ty) who are going to keep our house and dogs warms and safe  by staying here to take care of things for us...hopefully Ty doesn't have to scoop too much snow. =)

Addie can't go with us due to her heart defect and our cardiologist won't clear her to go into high altitudes..Cuenca is in the mountains...so she is staying in IL with my parents and will also get to spend some time with Zac's folks as well over the holidays...so thankful for our family to do this for us...we are confident she'll be well taken care of.  We'll be utilizing skype and facetime as much as possible. So thankful for technology!

Lastly, I thought I'd share another pic of our daughter, Adriana Erin, the name Zac has chosen for his second daughter. So blessed.
photo courtesy of Tiffanie Lloyd Photography

Monday, October 24, 2011

Officially Assigned and Final Fundraiser!



We're officially assigned!  
We are so excited to be at a point where this is our 
final fundraiser!
 We have been blessed by a great group of ladies who have gathered up the following prizes!


Our first prize...

iPad2 16GB


or
 $500 gift certificate to B & H Photo
or
$500 CASH 


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Our second prize...

Don't Dis My Ability Tshirt donated by Amy Flege
winner picks the size and color

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Our third prize...

Gift certificate for a pair of frames and a clip from Specs for Us
a $150 value!


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Our fourth prize...

Mother's Necklace donated by Dawn of Funky Fish Designs
up to 14 names



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Our fifth prize...


 Tutu dress donated by Angel Bailey Tutus
you pick the design, with or without crochet top.  All tutus come with matching hair band.



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Our sixth prize...


All Life Is Precious Necklace by Annie Reid of Ollie Faith Design

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Our seventh prize...

Norwex mini-mop package donated by Yolanda Huber 


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Our eighth prize...

Custom blog makeover by Bethany Balsis


You will get...
custom header
custom background
custom signature and sidebar headers
installation of pages
installation of facebook/twitter/rss feed widgets
and more!




Rules...

1) Every $10 donation using the ChipIn below or in my sidebar will earn you an entry into the drawing for one of the prizes.
2) Every $25 donation will get you 4 entries

3) Every $50 donation will get you 10 entries



Please blog it. Please facebook it. Please tweet it. Please share. Please help bring Sister home!


Sunday, October 23, 2011

Tomorrow, tomorrow, you're only a day away.....

But it is taking forever to get here! The meeting in Ecuador was supposed to be Tuesday, then got moved to Friday, then someone was sick.....now it is to be Monday...tomorrow!! We are praying it really happens...If they do really meet then there is still a good chance we could travel prior to Christmas...we'd be spending Christmas in Ecuador...but so be it if it means getting Sister home!

Two other families that we've been "walking" this Ecuadorian adoption journey with have been approved for immigration (I-800) and are just waiting for a travel date...one other family is just waiting on their immigration (I-800) approval..which I would guess should come this week for them...and then there is us and another family who's assignment should be coming on Thursday...I'm praying we all get to travel this year and we'll all get to meet in country! We all have to travel via Quito and three of the families' children are in Quito..so we'll be able to stay overnight with a family that we've been "walking" this oh so fun journey with! =)

It will all be worth it when that little girl is here in our arms...I think Zac is growing more and more anxious every day just to get her home...not sure what he's going to do when two little girls have him wrapped around their fingers, cause that's exactly what's going to happen....and I love it. Blessings and thank you for sharing in our journey!

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

May 10th, 2011

So what are you doing now?

Many people have asked what's next, when do we get Sister, why does it take so long....so I thought I'd give a little blurb for ya'll..

We meet for our 3rd and final home study visit on Sunday in Des Moines (I'll be up there for the Women of Faith conference and our social worker lives there!) Our social worker will notarize the items that I need notarized and then I can send in for apostiling (a document from the state for every document stating you "own" it) It costs $5 per apostile and we need over 20....yeah, you do that math, it adds up!

Our social worker will get us the final home study to review and then we should be able to submit our I-800A form with $1000 to immigration with our home study by May 24th, if not before. We then have to wait for approval for immigration to give us a fingerprinting date to go to Des Moines to be fingerprinted. This process typically takes 60-90 days but we are praying that with a little intervention from our congressman and a letter of urgency about Sister needing to get home quickly due to the Down syndrome and possible other medical issues, we are PRAYING we could get approval in about a month....but once again, we know this is in God's hands. There is WAY too much He has done to help us bring our daughter home to not believe His hand has been in every step.

Once we are fingerprinted and get approval of our I-800A we then can send our dossier over to get the full assignment of Sister. This can take 1-3 months, but again, we are praying that with a little intervention, we can have it move quickly. The government where Sister is at meets every Thursday for approval of adoptions so we are going to have some hard core prayers going up that our case can be approved quickly!

Once our dossier and full assignment of Sister happens, we just have to file another immigration form here in the states (I-800). Once Sister is approved here in the states, the US government cables that info to where Sister is at and we get a travel date!

So...with God all things are possible...and that is exactly what we are going on. We are praying that we will get the quick route on all things and that we can travel by Sister's 4th birthday in September. It's all in God's plans for our family....we can just hope that the goal of having Sister home in September came from Him! =)

We are having a pancake fundraiser with a bake sale and silent auction on June 4th. If you like to donate to the silent auction or bake, send me an email! Thank you!

March 7th, 2011

Let the fundraising begin! =) As Zac and I were praying about bringing this little girl home, we knew there was no way we could afford to do this. When it's all said and done we'll be needing a little over $15K to bring our little girl home. But we know that we serve an awesome God. He will provide all our needs during this time. If you feel led, feel free to click the Chipin on the sidebar and be the first to contribute. Thank you!


"Once our eyes are opened, we can't pretend we don't know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows what we know, and holds us responsible to act." Prov. 24:1

March 5th, 2011

Yes, it's true, there is a #2 in the works. However, said #2 is a beautiful little girl with Down syndrome who is in an international country. This is something that has been on Erin's heart for a very long time. After some friends of ours traveled on a missions trip and met her in an orphanage and then Zac saw her picture and we both spent lots of time in prayer considering all things, it was unanimous. Baby girl was meant to be a Harlan.
Once our eyes are opened, we can't pretend we don't know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows what we know, and holds us responsible to act." Prov. 24:1
We know many of you will be confused, asking why, or think we're nuts. And that is OK. Erin has felt lead to these orphans for over a year now. Zac more recently started discussing and praying about the idea and we are both very excited! We just ask that you would consider praying for our family during this time and especially our little girl sitting in an orphanage not knowing her momma and daddy....yet.
More info to come, but wanted the first post to be to the point =). We are praying she will be able to come home to celebrate with us by Christmas. We would love to have her home by her 4th birthday in September, and so we're praying for the God of miracles to do just that...give us a beautiful miracle.
To the general public, for privacy reasons until the adoption is final, she is a little girl with Down syndrome in a foreign country that desperately needs to be saved and brought to our little home to grow old with her sister.
Thank you so much for your support thus far in Adelynn's Journey and we look forward to seeing our story continue with the addition of another chromosomally enhanced little girl.
Blessings!
Yes, we are calling her Sister...as that is what Addie says when she sees her picture...and until we can use her name on here...we lovingly call her Sister!